For stand-up comedians, there’s nothing more disheartening than a stone-faced audience member. The temptation to focus on that individual is strong—some comedians even directly engage with them. Yet, perhaps the spectator was coerced into attending or is preoccupied with personal matters. Maybe they simply enjoy internal laughter.

We often read too much into negative audience reactions. Stepping onto the stage and attempting to elicit laughter requires immense bravery.

It’s unrealistic to expect unanimous laughter from every audience member. Pleasing everyone isn’t necessary. The mere act of trying and taking risks makes a significant impact. Even if you only reach one person in the crowd and brighten their day, it’s a success.